Like many women, I looked forward to being married with children and felt blessed that it happened. When I was 22 years old, I fell in love with a man who proposed marriage. I accepted. Most importantly, we did things the right way. Not only did we talk about everything from spirituality to finances, we took the time to go over the minute details; such as how we would attack disagreements or approach child rearing. We seemingly planned for everything... except failure. Here's what you had to say: Tamika commented via Facebook: "It's not easy realizing that your marriage is not worth saving." Kat commented via Facebook: "I applaud her for not staying stuck in stupid."