Forget looking for a Mr. Right that's a mirror image of you. The latest smart dating strategy for finding love, says New York psychotherapist Patricia M. DeVost, is going out with a brother from another . . . perspective. Here, DeVost explains why embracing the yin and yang of love may be your next relationship breakthrough... Here's what you had to say: Sara commented via Facebook: "While you and your mate must have the same fundamental life values, he probably will be the opposite of you in personality traits." Angela wrote via Facebook: "I agree. We complement each other and strengthen each other's weaknesses."