ESSENCE needs your help. We are working on an upcoming story about men and we need your insight. Please help us by completing our two polls: One for you, one for the man in your life
. The poll is on dating, sex, and more. Please pass this along to your girlfriends and all the men you can (brothers, co-workers,etc.). The poll is quick and easy -- and anonymous. Ladies: Take our poll! Men: Take our poll!