Since I signed up for an online dating website, I celebrated my birthday, I got my first tattoo, I started to acknowledge how awesome I am and l finally admitted to myself and my friends that I am looking for love. Unable to just come out and say, "Hey man, I want the real thing!" has probably hindered who I've met both in the real world and online. See, I'm a sucker for the guy who "just wants to hang out and enjoy each other's company" and is "not ready for a relationship right now." To help avoid these boys -- who, by the way, are everywhere in this giant sandbox of New York City -- and to show off the (ever-evolving) new me, I changed my profile to reflect my new self confidence, my new ink and what I really want.