I thought I met my future when I was 24-years-old; now I've finally accepted the experience was destined to be part of my past ... at least for now. Steve was unlike any man I'd ever dated. He was larger than life, both physically and experientially. He was tall, dark, and handsome... Here's what you had to say: Cicely commented: We must love us first ladies and the men will learn not to use as [their] foot stool." Nicole wrote: "Your story truly touched me. I am so glad you found strength to leave, and I am so glad I did too."