Esteemed mother of Brandy and Ray J, Sonja Norwood takes on the phrase "raise your daughter, love your son" and other parenting no-no's found in our community... Here's what you had to say: Rose commented via Facebook: "This poses a problem for the men in our community. Parents who failed to "raise" them have set them up for disappointment." Shannon wrote via Facebook: "I totally agree. We tend to raise our daughters to be independent and self-supportive while our sons, not so much."