Writer Zulekha Haywood knew she was done with online dating when she got a phone call from a suitor's girlfriend... Here's what you had to say: Melinda commented: "I have to agree with the author. While I've met people who had great relationships with people they've met online, me...not so much. After the third attempt went bad, I decided to meet my mate the old fashioned way." Anonymous wrote: "So what's the big deal, people lie in real life, too. Online requires a lot of patience. Before you meet someone decent, you're going to run into a handful losers and lonely husbands. Delete them and move on!"