As we celebrate Mother's Day, take a moment to reflect on you for a minute. Do you still feel as sexy as you did before the children? If you're lucky enough, you still do, but too often "moms give up their sex appeal when they have children," says ESSENCE.com blogger Harper. "Getting your sexy back is a mental exercise as well as a physical one." As you celebrate you today take a look at Harper's seven steps to help jump start the process of "Getting Your Sexy Back." For more "10 Minute Style with Harper," click here.