I joined Google's popular dating site OKCupid.com a little over a month ago in an attempt to shed my inner shy girl and become more active in the choices I make when it comes to dating. I wanted to choose the men I date, instead of always being chosen. I've mentioned that I have no game. So, mustering up the courage to say "Hey" to a guy or trying to find the right balance or mystery, humor and flirtation for my messages has been a challenge, but one that I've enjoyed so far. I decided I'm ready for the next step -- going from the computer screen to a face-to-face meeting. Here's what you had to say: Brent R commented: "It depends on what you want to find out initially about this guy." Nita wrote: "Inviting a guy to an informal meeting is totally okay."