So far, Oakland native Gloria Govan and her fiancee, Orlando Magic forward Matt Barnes, have come off as the most "normal" couple on "Basketball Wives." On the show, Govan seems to maintain her distance from the women, even declaring that she has what they don't have: a loving, committed relationship. Their reply? She's just naive. The mom of 18-month-old twin boys, Isaiah and Carter, recently spoke with ESSENCE.com about her upcoming summer wedding and why the haters make her want to fight for her man and her young family even more... Here's what you had to say: Ms. G commented: "I am so glad to see her dispelling negativity and not allowing the bitterness of other women affect her view of her relationship."