Every day we feature the beloved "Strawberry Letter
" franchise that is so popular on "The Steve Harvey Morning Show
" heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today's topic: Should I tell her that her man is gay?
Dear Steve and Shirley, Here goes--I am an attrative single women. I have never been married and I have no children. I have a good job and I am very self-sufficient. I met a man and we hit it off. We have a lot of the same goals and values. We both agreed that we wanted to get to know each other and be friends first and if it went somewhere, then fine. We talked at three or four times-a-day and would see each other on weekends if he was not working. First, I found out that this man might be bisexual. Then, to my dismay, I found out that he is gay. I ended our friendship not because he is gay, but because I found out that he is not the person I thought he was. I prayed for God to reveal him to me and it was as if someone opened a book and there it all was. He presents himself as a perfect gentleman with such high standards and morals. This is something he has been doing for most of his adult life and getting away with it. Recently I have learned he is getting married. The problem is that the person he is marrying has no clue about him. Would you tell or just mind your own business. To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here