"Basketball Wives" cast member Jennifer Williams is the only real wife on our favorite Sunday night addiction. So far, the college graduate and wife of former Charlotte Bobcat Eric Williams has been brutally honest about the highs and lows of being married to a pro athlete. Williams spoke to ESSENCE.com about issues of infidelity in her own marriage and how she's learned to live with what she describes as a "dysfunctional" lifestyle. Related stories: "Basketball Wives'" Royce Reed: 'I Took Things Too Far'Dr. Michelle On Cheating Ways of Athletes Here's what you had to say: Get real commented: "The only difference between them (basketball wives) and women who are not married to ballers is the money."