With Valentine's Day around the corner, we've all got boys on the brain, even if we don't have anyone special in our lives right now. But what's more important than finding somebody to love is finding the right one to love. We invited a few good men into the conversation. Relationships expert and author of "Men Don't Heal, We Ho," Steven James Dixon, and author of "Giving Love A Chance," Nicholas "Sixx" King join ESSENCE Relationships Editor Demetria L. Lucas and ESSENCE.com Relationships Editor Bobbi Misick for a live chat about how to find the right guy on ESSENCE.com. Sign up for the chat here. Read More: Read Steven James Dixon's "What to Look for in a Man, Part I" Read Steven James Dixon's "What to Look for in a Man, Part lI" Check out Nicholas "Sixx" King's ESSENCE.com blog, "Giving Love a Chance."