Read Steven James Dixon's second installment of What To Look For In A Man. Dixon is a relationships expert and tell-it-like-it-is author of "Men Don't Heal, We Ho: A Book About The Emotional Instability of Men." A few good men recently popped the question to their girlfriends with the help of ESSENCE. Which one is your favorite? Read More: Steven James Dixon's "What To Look For In A Man, Part I"Steven James Dixon's "10 Ways to Go From Girlfriend to Wife"9 Reasons Why "Wife" Is Better Than "Wifey"