Inside most brides is a little thing I like to call "The Princess Bride Complex." It's the idea that a bride believes that her wedding day is only her day and that everyone around her is to be at her beck and call. Even if that will be true for you on your wedding day, chances are it won't be the case for all the days leading up to your wedding. Many a reasonable woman has been seduced by the ideologies of her Princess Bride alter ego and as a result has lost not only friends but sometimes even the men they love. Although there is nothing inherently wrong with wanting to be a princess for a day, here are my top four tips to help brides keep both glass slippers on the ground. Read More: Find out how the brides in our Will You Marry Me? are handling their wedding plans.Get more tips from the Blackberry Bride.