When not planned correctly, choosing your bridal party can add tons of avoidable stress. Should you include friends or relatives? College or High School friends? Added to that are so many unspoken layers--from your parent's expectations to your in-laws requests--of who you should include. To give yourself some breathing room, it is best to pick your party nice and early and stick to it. Remember you're looking for people who will help enhance your experience not cause you any more drama. Here are some ways to help make your selection process is that much easier. Read More:Vote for your favorite Will You Marry Me? couple now. You may win a four-night stay in Maui! Bridal Party Gift Ideas The Ultimatum: Marry me Now or Lose me ForeverQuiz: What's your honeymoon sex fantasy?