Navigating love after divorce can often be scarier than if you had never been married before. You're harboring wounds from your previous marriage. You may rush into things because you miss the companionship you once had. AOL Black Voices On Love featured two letters from the site's Luv Coach from women who were recently divorced and unsure of their new relationships. Laurie is worried that her new man is using her and Janet thinks she may have taken the plunge with her fiance and now baby's father too soon. Read the Luv Coach's advice for Laurie and Janet.