It's normal to be attracted to people that aren't from our culture. They're exotic to us. They represent a whole new world we know nothing about. But dating or marrying someone who doesn't think the same way you do can have its challenges. We asked ESSENCE.com Facebook fans in multi-culti relationships to write to us and tell us how they viewed their relationship and how they got through their challenges. Here's what some of them had to say said. Read what your fellow ESSENCE.com readers had to say about sex after marriage. Read your fellow ESSENCE.com readers' secrets to successful marriage. Find out how these couples deal with their differences.