Men like to always joke that after marriage all the good lovin' they used to get stops. But on a serious note, a lot of married couples will tell you that the sex has gotten better since they put a ring on it. Take our poll and tell us what you think sex after marriage is like? Write to us at relationships@ESSENCE-online.com and tell us what you think the sex will be like after you tie the knot and why. Already hitched? Tell us what making love as husband and wife is like. Is it just as you expected or different? We'll reveal what you wrote on ESSENCE.com this afternoon.