Christmas in a "blended family" isn't always all about holiday cheer. Sometimes it's about making sure your ex-husband, your shared children and your new boyfriend don't feel neglected. The holidays for a new "unconventional" family can be just as special as Christmas time for a more traditional unit. Life coach Valorie Burton says suggests a few ways to have a successful holiday in a blended family is to be realistic and to plan ahead. Check out her insightful tips on how to be one big happy family this Christmas.